it is fine to have SOME things in common

to have everything in common with your boy/girlfriend is a bad thing because it will be boring. have SOME things in common with your boy/girlfriend. 

love AND respect

treat you boy/girl friend, fiance/fiancee husband/wife with love AND respect.

don't focus on your boy/girlfriend twenty-four seven

it is not wrong to spend some time with your boy/girlfriend BUT  NOT ALL  the time. GET YOUR  PRIORITIES STRAIGHT . for example: 1. family 2. studies 3. yourself 4. friends 5. boy/girl friend . some of you are probably wondering why friends before boy/girl friend. answer: when you break up with your boy/girl friend your friends/ a family member will comfort you.

what type of guy/lady you like?

what type of guy/lady you like?
make a list and see if he/she has what your looking for or  has most of what your looking for in a guy/lady. DON'T set your standard too high or too low.

looks doesn't last forever

DON'T JUDGE A PERSON ON THEIR APPEARANCE BUT THEIR PERSONALITY.

do not be overly dramatic

You say that 'you can't live without him/her'. THINK RATIONALLY how much is that TRUE. Does he/she PROVIDE for you?. Does he/she TAKE CARE of you?. If not then TONE DOWN the DRAMA. if HE\SHE IS ABUSIVE just break up with him\her even if he\she PROVIDE for you and TAKE CARE of you

to the people reading this blog

dear people,
        Everything I posted is the information that I gather mostly from high school girls and some high school guys of MY TOWN by observing and typing my opinion on this blog. So PLEASE DO NOT BASED YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON MY POST. It is JUST ADVICE. It is YOUR OWN DECISION to follow my ADVICE OR NOT.

the last straw

Give your boy/girlfriend TEN chances and ONLY TEN. DO NOT SYMPATHIZE him/her. Yes, people make mistakes but if that person promised that he/she wouldn't do it again and then BREAKS IT. That ISN'T a mistake but INTENTIONAL. DO NOT BE A FOOL in love.

bad boy/girlfriend

don't fight for a bad boy/girlfriend. it's not worth it.if that boy/girlfriend is dating someone behind your back don't get in a fight with the person that his/her is dating. slap that jackass and break up with him. if it's a girl just break up with her.

lending ur money to ur boy/girlfriend/lover/someone u like

never ever lend your money to your boy/girlfriend without concrete evidence and reason that you have to. And no stupid reason like 'if you love you will lend me the money' or something like that.you heard cases like lend me money for me to start a business. PLEASE THINK BEFORE YOU LEND YOUR MONEY TO YOUR BOY/GIRLFRIEND/LOVER/SOMEONE YOU LIKE!!!!!

forbidden love

forbidden love is the worse kind of love. u have hide your relationship from people mostly your  parents. ONLY IN TV SHOWS that a forbidden love relationship will have a happy ending.most of u might know the most famous forbidden love story 'ROMEO & JULIET' that did not have a happy ending.

good men/women are hard to find

NOW GOOD MEN/WOMEN are on the verge of extinction.

not the same

a lot of people think that moving in together/getting engage is the same thing as getting married it's not .

be youself in a relationship

love does not conquer all only certain things for different couples. So that is why you should be yourself in a relationship. You can't say ' I want be like this couple or that'.

complicated situation

when your in love with a friend, good , best or childhood friend it makes it hard to confess because your afraid to ruin your friendship. Well if that person is truly your friend then that confession shouldn't effect your friendship. Those who are in these situation i wish you the best of luck. 

don't toture yourself

if you and your boy/girl friend fight too much then BREAK UP. Although both of you have been dating for a long time.

unrequited love

unrequited love such a sad thing :'(  and complicated this person loves that person, that person loves another person and so on. It is also frustrating >:-( 

teen love

what is love and a crush ? falling in love and having a crush how do you differentiate them. If you love someone you treat them with respect. If you have a crush you mostly complain because you don't compromise. However, don't compromise for the wrong things. For example sex before marriage, taking drugs and so on.